{"id":13031,"date":"2026-06-24T16:07:13","date_gmt":"2026-06-24T04:07:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/accordingtokirsty.com\/?p=13031"},"modified":"2026-06-24T16:07:13","modified_gmt":"2026-06-24T04:07:13","slug":"perspective-9","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/accordingtokirsty.com\/index.php\/2026\/06\/24\/perspective-9\/","title":{"rendered":"Perspective"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>First of all, a disclaimer: I\u2019m currently on holiday in Fiji, so any complaints from me should be taken with a grain of (sea) salt.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s Wednesday already, and we arrived on Friday, so I can\u2019t figure out why this is the first post I\u2019ve written. I used to diligently write every day when I was on holiday, \u00a0but I&#8217;ve got very slack. Yes, my days have been filled with swimming, snorkeling, kayaking, and day trips, but I don\u2019t have any work to do, and I\u2019m no longer wasting any time on social media. Any spare time I have, I\u2019ve spent reading my yoga instructor\u2019s book, which is way better than it has any right to be. How come he had time to research and write a book whilst working as a lawyer and yoga teacher? It\u2019s quite depressing. Clearly I don\u2019t need social media to demonstrate my inadequacies in comparison to other people. On the other hand, the sister in law of a good friend died earlier this week after a long illness, and she was only my age. I remember her as a bridesmaid at her twin sister\u2019s wedding: she was the most glamorous woman I ever met, as well as being delightfully wicked. A reminder that life is a gift, not to be taken for granted. Don\u2019t sweat the small stuff, indeed.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_13032\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-13032\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"13032\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/accordingtokirsty.com\/index.php\/2026\/06\/24\/perspective-9\/img_6359\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/accordingtokirsty.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_6359-scaled.jpeg?fit=1600%2C1200&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1600,1200\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;2.8&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;iPhone 17 Pro&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1782236449&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;16.890625&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;50&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.0043668122270742&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"IMG_6359\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Insert inspirational caption here&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/accordingtokirsty.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_6359-scaled.jpeg?fit=525%2C394&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-13032\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/accordingtokirsty.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_6359-300x225.jpeg?resize=300%2C225&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/accordingtokirsty.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_6359-scaled.jpeg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/accordingtokirsty.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_6359-scaled.jpeg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/accordingtokirsty.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_6359-scaled.jpeg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/accordingtokirsty.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_6359-scaled.jpeg?resize=1536%2C1152&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/accordingtokirsty.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_6359-scaled.jpeg?resize=2048%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/accordingtokirsty.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_6359-scaled.jpeg?w=1600&amp;ssl=1 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-13032\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Insert inspirational caption here<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>First of all, a disclaimer: I\u2019m currently on holiday in Fiji, so any complaints from me should be taken with a grain of (sea) salt.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13031","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pa8Ukf-3ob","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":7651,"url":"https:\/\/accordingtokirsty.com\/index.php\/2022\/03\/20\/yoga-challenge\/","url_meta":{"origin":13031,"position":0},"title":"Yoga challenge","author":"Interloper11","date":"March 20, 2022","format":false,"excerpt":"During the current Omicron outbreak, our yoga classes are currently only available online, via zoom. 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