{"id":12763,"date":"2026-03-14T10:53:23","date_gmt":"2026-03-13T21:53:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/accordingtokirsty.com\/?p=12763"},"modified":"2026-03-16T13:19:20","modified_gmt":"2026-03-16T00:19:20","slug":"life-is-beautiful","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/accordingtokirsty.com\/index.php\/2026\/03\/14\/life-is-beautiful\/","title":{"rendered":"Life is beautiful"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The surgeon I worked with in private the other day had a registrar with him, a senior trainee. I always enjoy it when this happens, because it takes the pressure off me to make conversation.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Half way through the list, her phone rang, and one of the nurses took a message. It was her Croatian grandfather calling, and she said she\u2019d ring him back after we were done.<\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t seem particularly excited by the prospect of talking with him, and she explained to us that he was a complicated man. For years he\u2019d maintained that as a child, he\u2019d been on holiday in Egypt during WW2. \u201cHow long were you on holiday for, Papi?\u201d \u201cTwo years\u201d. \u201cWow! That\u2019s a long time, especially during a war\u2026\u201d Doing some reading on the period recently, she\u2019d discovered that he\u2019d actually been in a refugee camp over that time. \u201cRefugee camp! Pshaw. We had fun.\u201d \u201cBut Papi look, here\u2019s a photo of a memorial they have over there, to all the children who died of disease and malnutrition while interned there.\u201d \u201cOh you young people make such a big deal of everything! I tell you, it was that thing, what do you call it? Glamping! We were glamping.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"12764\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/accordingtokirsty.com\/index.php\/2026\/03\/14\/life-is-beautiful\/screenshot-48\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/accordingtokirsty.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_1216.jpeg?fit=957%2C709&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"957,709\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;Screenshot&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1773485522&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Screenshot&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Screenshot\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/accordingtokirsty.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_1216.jpeg?fit=525%2C389&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-12764\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/accordingtokirsty.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_1216.jpeg?resize=300%2C222&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"222\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/accordingtokirsty.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_1216.jpeg?resize=300%2C222&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/accordingtokirsty.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_1216.jpeg?resize=768%2C569&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/accordingtokirsty.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_1216.jpeg?w=957&amp;ssl=1 957w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The surgeon I worked with in private the other day had a registrar with him, a senior trainee. I always enjoy it when this happens, because it takes the pressure off me to make conversation.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12763","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pa8Ukf-3jR","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":12416,"url":"https:\/\/accordingtokirsty.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/17\/d-day\/","url_meta":{"origin":12763,"position":0},"title":"D day","author":"Interloper11","date":"November 17, 2025","format":false,"excerpt":"Or S day? 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